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Positive Experiences with Pelvic Exams
Positive Experiences with Pelvic Exams

Offering respectful pelvic exams is not just to minimize trauma and discomfort (though those are very important goals), but to also have the pelvic exam become a positive experience, whenever possible. Not just something less awful than previous experiences, no just something tolerable or okay, but something actually positive.

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Gentle IUD Insertion
Gentle IUD Insertion

If there’s one pelvic care procedure people seem to universally dread, it’s an IUD insertion. The most common words I hear when describing an IUD insertion are excruciating and traumatic. It does not need to be this way! With careful and respectful handling of the body, and knowledge of the natural mechanisms of the cervix, an IUD insertion can be as gentle as possible.

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A D&C By Any Other Name...
A D&C By Any Other Name...

The term “D&C” describes a specific medical procedure. It is not an appropriate catch-all for any procedure that empties a uterus! It is important to use accurate medical terminology when describing the procedures people are going to receive in their body, especially with the intimacy and vulnerability of abortion care & miscarriage management. Respect people enough to trust them to hold new, nuanced information and understand their bodies best.

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Natural Cervical Softeners
Natural Cervical Softeners

Cervixes are dynamic, incredible organs that can change shape, consistency, feel, and even almost disappear entirely at different points of menstruation, ovulation, pregnancy loss, and birthing.

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What to Expect During and After a Miscarriage / Abortion
What to Expect During and After a Miscarriage / Abortion

Lots of people approach me during and after an abortion or a miscarriage describing very normal, expected symptoms and worrying that something is wrong with them. They often feel inadequately prepared by their healthcare providers, or have been helping themselves at home without outside guidance, and are now concerned about their well-being and their bodies.

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Sex After Miscarriage
Sex After Miscarriage

After my second miscarriage, the deepest, most meaningful healing I experienced was through sex. I’ve had four, maybe five, miscarriages. They’ve each been unique and brought their own lessons on management and aftercare. Miscarriages can be rough. Physically. Emotionally. Practically. Even with my deep knowledge of miscarriage management, I struggle with them just like anyone else. We’re human. Losing children is challenging.

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Connecting with Newborns through my PPE
Connecting with Newborns through my PPE

PPE has significantly impacted by ability to connect with newborns. They can’t tell where my voice is coming from when my mask covers my mouth. Glare and reflection off my face shield makes them look away, and already blurry vision through a face shield makes it hard for them to make eye contact with me. When I try to bring my face closer to them to facilitate communication I often awkwardly bonk them with my shield.

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Abortion Care Changes During the COVID-19 Pandemic
Abortion Care Changes During the COVID-19 Pandemic

Abortion care is changing right now. Due to the COVID-19 crisis, the way people access abortions, and the way clinicians provide them has come under careful consideration. In most cases, this has meant decreased in-person contact and eliminating a lot of the peripheral things that come along with abortion provision, like bloodwork, ultrasound, and counseling. As someone who has long supported out-of-clinic abortion care, these changes are encouraging, to see an abortion care system I usually perceive as rigid starting to relax and take a look at evidence-based, client-centered care principles.

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On Being Pro-Choice and Hating my Local Clinic
On Being Pro-Choice and Hating my Local Clinic

How can I believe in abortion access and also believe most of my local clinics and providers are doing a lackluster, or outright awful, job? How can we demand accountability from our local abortion providers and not play into anti-abortion propaganda? 

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Using Misoprostol to Induce Abortion
Using Misoprostol to Induce Abortion

One of the more important developments in research around medication abortion protocols is that misoprostol works well to induce an abortion all on its own. Sound, scientific studies have shown that even without Mifepristone, misoprostol alone is safe, effective, and (unlike Mifepristone) much more accessible and affordable.

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Miscarriage Management with Medications
Miscarriage Management with Medications

Slowly but surely, there is a growing body of literature and medical practice around administering medication protocols for early pregnancy loss. The delay in the uptake of medications for miscarriage management is often tied to the stigma of these medications and research around them being typically used for abortion … despite the physiology between an early abortion and an early miscarriage being nearly identical.

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Using Queen Anne’s Lace to Manage Fertility
Using Queen Anne’s Lace to Manage Fertility

Queen Anne’s Lace is a lovely, delicate wildflower, which goes by many names with many different peoples, texts, and regions. She brings up her lacy flowers in late summer, and when people work with her medicine they’re usually trying to avoid having babies.

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My Five Miscarriages and What They Felt Like
My Five Miscarriages and What They Felt Like

Having had five miscarriages, I’ve become somewhat of an unfortunate expert. I’ve had a range of experiences from mysterious to practical, from labour & birth to hemorrhage, from grief and pain to relief. When I first started researching miscarriage before I started having my own, my most powerful learning came from storytelling. I hope now to add to that narrative and bring some wisdom from my losses.

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Fertility Humility: On Being a Midwife Who Can’t Get Pregnant
Fertility Humility: On Being a Midwife Who Can’t Get Pregnant

To say this process has been, is, painful would be a gross understatement. The coupling of being a midwife and being unwillingly infertile is a brutal existence. While I can easily compartmentalize my individual clients’ joys, fears, and experiences from my own, the simple juxtaposition of spending all day around pregnancy and babies feel ironic at best coming home to a quiet house. 

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Learning to Love the Speculum
Learning to Love the Speculum

I love my speculum. I absolutely love it. It was a journey to get here. Like most people, my first experiences with speculums were clunky, uncomfortable, and at times downright painful. But it doesn’t have to be this way. You, too, can reclaim this tool! You, too, can love your speculum! 

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Drop the Coat Hanger Symbolism! 
Drop the Coat Hanger Symbolism! 

The image provokes a visceral physical reaction and evokes a societal remembering of times when women used desperate and dangerous measures to end pregnancies, and has become part of the standard vocabulary in the movement to promote access to clinic-based abortion. But it’s time we dropped the symbol!

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Self-Care and Community Care
Self-Care and Community Care

There’s a disturbing obsession with “self-care” in the birthworker/full-spectrum/reproductive justice/caring professions community. As if busy, caring, self-sacrificing people need one more person to worry about and care for: themselves.

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What is "Full Spectrum" Care?
What is "Full Spectrum" Care?

When I talk about being a midwife and providing care to community, I refer to my care as “full spectrum”. This means I take care of a broad spectrum of people through a broad spectrum of experiences and outcomes, related to reproductive health.

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